That's my point---not really germane to the subject/circumstances/predatory practices at hand to even bring(or keep bringing) ADOM into it as if there's even a reaching thematic association...especially in a speciously reasoned negative context that doesn't hold water. I'm nobody's fanboy---but I also lack an axe to grind.
Lots of people having/witnessing negative BSM experiences combined with their own equal parts baffling and disturbing posts on Reddit and the like paint the picture rather worryingly.