Endorya...it's something that is very likely to happen either to them or someone they're close to, they're not really being unreasonable, don't discount what they're saying just because you disagree with it)
It is not about agreeing or disagreeing with what they say but listening to their answers based on emotion and not logic; there is no point having an argument based on emotion.
Whether the arguments are "logical" or not, I think that it's saying something if every woman (or most women) you talk to about it has a problem with it.
And I don't think it's a good idea to discount people for their arguments being based on emotion when you're dealing with a very emotionally loaded subject like rape (not to mention it sounds like you're saying women can't be logical because they're too emotional, at least when it comes to this subject if nothing else, which comes across as a little sexist).
I've come to realize that one shouldn't condemn others for having different points of view decades ago, probably because there is a fine chance I might just be older than you.
Maybe you are, maybe you aren't, but what's the point of bringing it up? Even if I am younger than you, does that make what I have to say invalid? (I'm 25, if it matters)
And that's really the question you have to ask yourself: Why do you want to portray rape in a game? What purpose would it serve? Are you trying to make a larger point? If it's just to be "realistic," because, you know, someone could rape someone else, I don't really think that's a good reason. Are you going to include pissing and shitting too?
Do you really believe that I've never ponder about it? Do you think that one day I just woke up and screamed: "WHAT IF?!". I've already stated here that this discussion has already happened in another forum, with family members, with friends of mine and with co-workers.
Sure, I hope you've thought about it. And sure, you've said the discussion has happened before, but none of us were there for that so we don't know what was said in those. So I'm sorry if you've already answered them before, but calling them "stupid questions" is just hostile.
You should ask yourself instead if those questions of yours were really necessary.
Maybe it wasn't necessary that I ask them, but I don't know what you've already thought about. I think those questions
are questions that you should think about if you want to include rape in a game. If you have thought about them already, then great.
I might add pissing and shitting and call it the Rickton skill: "You feel very Rickton, it is time to take a dump".
Yeah, that's a personal attack, and there's really no reason for that. I think I'm starting to have an idea why your other thread didn't work out so well.
Is it just because nobody else is doing it? That's not necessarily a reason either. There are reasons nobody else is doing it. Now, I don't think that it's impossible that a game could handle rape well, but I find it pretty unlikely that putting it as an optional feature in a roguelike is going to be handling it well.
I've mentioned the reasons about it a few times now, it is just a matter of you reading everything I've typed so far.
I did read what you wrote, but thanks for talking down to me again. I just said "realism" rather than "freedom of choice," which was my bad I guess.
But I'll just repeat myself; I want to offer freedom of choice giving the audience a chance of playing with a true good or a true evil character. This is the main reason for me, but like you said: "don't discount what they're saying just because you disagree with it".
OK, you said that before, but that still doesn't really answer the question. Sure, you want to offer freedom of choice, and that's fine, but no game will ever truly have complete freedom of choice. Some things will be doable, some things won't, just due to limitations of what's programmed in. Why is it so important to
specifically have rape in the game, when you know it's likely to cause problems, rather than some other immoral action?
Like
I said before, I'm not discounting the inclusion of rape in a game, and none of this is intended as an assault on you or your ideas, so cool it on the hostility a bit (I think
you might be getting a little emotional rather than logical
). If you want to have a discussion, let's have a discussion, if you just want to be told you're right, that's probably not going to happen, this is roguetemple, for every 5 users there's 6 diametrically opposed opinions.