I think the main idea in gamergate is realize that everyone involved in it, none of them are gamers actually. They are just average people who want their share of internet fame. They use games and stuff to get it. When you look at Anita Sarkeesian's videos (well, I've probably seen one and not even all of it) you can see she doesn't really believe in that crap she is telling. It's sad, really. And everyone thought nerd gamers are sad, but no, there are worse people than that.