[Edit: Removed a lot of words which were unnecessary for making the point]
My opinion is that games shouldn't force you to play boring, repetitive sections to get at the fun part (looking at you, ADOM); should give you the information necessary to make informed decisions; and shouldn't totally bone you with the RNG. I like hard games, and I like the idea that I must deal with the consequences of my own actions. But I'm not interested in taking responsibility for things beyond my control, nor being punished disproportionally to my choices.
If the game feels punishing don't fucking play it.